Pre-birth mediumship
I'm a medium. I communicate with the soul of your child before they take a body - while you're trying or while you're carrying - and bring you what they want you to know, so they arrive to a family that's ready for them. This gives the being a "soft landing" coming into this life/world. It starts with a video call. After that, I pass along the messages as they come through.
What it is
The agreement between you, your partner, and the energy of the child is in place well before you meet with me. Since they don't have a body yet, there are far fewer limitations than you and I have right now, so you are receiving information that is clear and unfiltered.
The messages come to me as words, images, or a feeling, sometimes a memory of my own gets borrowed to make a point. I receive it and translate it for the parents and siblings.
What tends to come through:
None of it is trivial. Every piece is preparation.
Why parents come
Parents tend to be guided here in order to be best prepared, out of their immense love for their incoming child. This includes unassisted/assisted pregnancy, surrogacy, adoption, and/or multiple gestation. The transmissions have also helped in understanding a loss of a pregnancy and/or assessing challenges with conception. In rare cases, the child may ultimately agree to stay in spirit, not take a body, in order to support you in a different way. We can explore this together.
Most parents who find me are usually quietly working through a list - personal spiritual healing to complete, patterns to break, versions of themselves to become before the child shows up. It's a loving instinct; however it tends to run on a frequency of fear or self-criticism at times.
What usually comes through is a confirmation that any growth this asks of you is already underway. The process has begun and that is enough. It's not a race against the clock, it's actually divine timing. Hearing this usually tends to loosen something, bringing a sense of relief.
Often it can be confirmation more than revelation. Parents are usually more intuitive than they give themselves credit for and have already sensed some of it. There's something reassuring, stabilizing about hearing it from someone else.
You don't have to be finished transforming in order to give your child an ideal welcome. You only have to be preparing for the one coming.
Melanie rooted me into motherhood before I ever became a mother.
Rahmie Santoso - Bay Area Ca
Before you write to me
Although there can be aspects of fun or excitement in the messages, there's a much bigger picture. Along the way, messages tend to arrive with a call to action. There is frequently a request for one or both of the parents to do some personal healing. It may be healing within their relationship, healing between the parent(s) and older sibling(s), or it may be an ask for karma to be cleared around something specific (past life, name passed down to the child, fear, etc). The messages really only help if you trust the information being sent to you and are willing to do some work.
How it goes
The energy of our work together changes over time. The connection prior to conception is a specific frequency, the signal is strongest while in utero, and it closes at birth.
Tell me where you are in your journey - trying or already carrying, or anything in between. Please include what you're hoping to get out of this - it can be pretty general so don't feel like you need to have the "right" answer.
Video call with one or both of the parents - I ask questions that may sound ordinary at first. It's not small talk, it's where I start reading the energy of the two of you and the one arriving.
As the messages start coming in I will send them to one or both of the parents, whoever chooses to be part of this. The connection tends to get stronger the longer we work together, so the frequency of the messages may fluctuate. You can start by sending a list of questions, or you can send questions as they arise. I cannot control what information they choose to share, questions will only be answered if it's for the highest good for everyone involved.
Once they're in the body, the signal drops off almost entirely. They've landed, you have everything that you need at this point. Enjoy every minute!
About
This started as a promise to the ones arriving.
This work came to me organically. It started with friends that are practitioners, consulting me on certain cases. Then, friends that were trying, already pregnant, or had experienced a loss of pregnancy, started coming to ask me to engage with the energy of their child. This brought beautiful results for the families. The more I worked with these energies, it became more clear to me that this is my soul's purpose. The incoming souls stressed the importance in creating a bridge for their arrival. I love playing with these energies and I'm so excited to create the bridge for many more to come!
Coming into this body is a steep drop. These are bright beings with very few limitations on them right now, and they're about to be compressed into something small and new and entirely dependent. Having a strong, intentional connection, prior to arrival, softens the transition. Being welcomed by those who already know you, and have prepared for your auspicious arrival is incredibly comforting.
So that's what I'm actually doing here. I'm helping to give your child a family that recognizes them on arrival. When you already know what they need, what they love, what they came to do, they don't have to wait until they have the vocabulary to explain it all, so certain things are already in place to support their soul's purpose.
How I work
I pass on what comes through, with integrity. This includes the parts that may seem inconvenient or that you may not have asked about. I tend not to change or soften messages. I won't pad one out to make it feel like it is more than it was. If nothing comes, I will be honest and say nothing came.
Something worth clarifying is that my contract is with your child first. I mean that as devotion to them rather than distance from you - they're the reason any of this exists, and you're the person that I get to hand it to.
Melanie has travelled the world working with spiritual masters in many different countries. She has also sat in silence for extended periods, lived in a consciousness community, and lived in many different parts of the country. She has been a registered nurse since 2008. Melanie practices many different modalities, but will not share the specifics at this time, since this site's focus is for this specific work.
A mother's experience
Melanie has been a close friend since 2020. It wasn't until I decided to have children consciously in 2021 that I began communicating with my first child before she was even born. I learned that Melanie was already in communication with her Soul. It happened organically. She shared what my daughter requested for her birth, and I came to understand her soul on a much deeper level through Melanie's communication with her. I already felt prepared for her arrival, and hearing what Melanie had to share rooted me more deeply into motherhood before I ever became a mother.
Three and a half years later, I got a ping from her about another soul ready to come earthside. I had been connecting with this spirit for a while, knowing a second child was coming, but I was unsure of the timing and hadn't acted on it. Melanie was already speaking with him, and she confirmed it was time. As a first-time mom to a three-year-old, I had been quietly wondering whether I was ready to mother two. With her insight, I knew.
Later in that pregnancy, when I was dealing with some difficult things, she gave me real peace of mind — that it was all part of the path, that he had a soul contract to arrive exactly as I had envisioned, through a home birth, and that he would be born healthy and happy.
She also confirmed both of my children's names and whether their souls were in alignment with what we had chosen, and helped me see any karma attached to them.
I feel deeply connected to my own spirit and to my children's souls. But being human includes fear, overthinking, and ups and downs. When things got fuzzy and my emotions got the best of me, Melanie was a guiding light. I am deeply grateful for her guidance into motherhood.
Rahmie Santoso - Bay Area Ca
Cost
This runs on love donation - whatever the work turns out to be worth to you, given whenever you're ready. No packages, no tiers, nothing to choose. It was built for the ones arriving.
Start here
Trying, carrying, or somewhere in between — write to me and we'll find out whether there's something here for you. Earlier is better. The window closes on its own.
Thank you
Your message was sent. I’ll reach out soon.
Not ready to write yet?
This work has a window, and it may not be open for you yet. If children are further off, leave your email and I’ll be here when the time comes.
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